Guys, after brooke up couple months ago, I just realize that even a smart girl is just an ordinary girl who could have her heart broken and loose half of her wings.
I met this guy once, and we're plan to get married by the mid of this year. I never thought that it will end up just like that. I thought I'm smart, but suddenly I just remained that I'm still an ordinary girl. Thank God, You remind me of who I am.
Its hurt, but I know I can face it. I believe if God intended something to be happned in his way, then will be happen. Moreover, if He gave me this kind of feeling, hurt, angry, sad, and finally realize that I can go through anything in front of me with HIS blessings, then I know I'm able to face anything.
I'm not a quitter who just quit in the middle of a battle, I know Ican make it and I will make it.
What a thought, I dont know what you think bout me or my thinking, and to be frank, I dont care.
I have value that not everyone have it, each one of us is valuable if you want to realize it.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Monday, July 21, 2008
Nu boyfriend...
Guess what?... I gotta nu boyfriend...
I found him accidentally at supermarket while queing for paying my stuff. I do believe "Luv @ d first", but never experience my self. Suddenly we both talking about Tasmanian doll hanging besides me, ask my phone number and so on. BTW, I have a nu boyfriend now and its trully nice 2 b with him.
Have you ever been in such a comfortable situation like this? I never tought I'm gonna fall in luv like this, I guess I am in luv...
He just go stright to my heart and keep my inside his heart, for dont know how long. Just wish if he is the best one, then we'll b together till death falls us apart. He intended to marry me, could you believe it? In just couple weeks, he already make sure him selves to marry me... Wow, such a surprise for me...
Really nice feeling to be in his arm, being hold...uhm...really miss that time. So, if there is nothing change, he's going to marry me next year... What a great feeling...
First Date...Uhm,...
Hi guys, I got some tips on how to get a great First Date. Wanna see how? Check this out:
7 Tips for a Great First Date
Follow these simple first-date etiquette tips and you'll greatly improve your chances for a second date.
1. Make a backup plan. The weather can change quickly, restaurants can close for renovations. Have a backup plan ready in case your date takes an unexpected turn.
2. Plan a short date. No need to map out the rest of your lives together. Start with a simple, 1-to-2-hour date. If things go well, you can always extend the date. There's nothing worse than being on an all-day tour when you realized five minutes into the date that you have no future together.
3. Be punctual. There's no greater sign of disrespect than being late for your first date. Get directions to your location, arrive early, and show your date that you care about him or her and the plans you made.
4. Agree on the dress code. When planning the date,
talk about the dress code for the particular event
talk about the dress code for the particular event. It can be embarrassing if one person shows up in a suit while the other wears jeans and a sweatshirt.
5. Compliment, but don't overdo it. A few nice words make everyone feel special, but persistent comments about the other person's looks, personality, body, etc., gets old and can seem insincere or desperate.
6. Drink responsibly. A few drinks may take the pressure off the date, but don't pretend you're at a fraternity party. Drinking too much will likely bring out some bad sides to your personality -- and that can't help your chances.
7. Balance talking and listening. Pay attention to the amount of time you spend talking versus listening. If the scale is weighing in either direction, look to balance it out.
Well, believe it or not is only fact after we proofe it right?
7 Tips for a Great First Date
Follow these simple first-date etiquette tips and you'll greatly improve your chances for a second date.
1. Make a backup plan. The weather can change quickly, restaurants can close for renovations. Have a backup plan ready in case your date takes an unexpected turn.
2. Plan a short date. No need to map out the rest of your lives together. Start with a simple, 1-to-2-hour date. If things go well, you can always extend the date. There's nothing worse than being on an all-day tour when you realized five minutes into the date that you have no future together.
3. Be punctual. There's no greater sign of disrespect than being late for your first date. Get directions to your location, arrive early, and show your date that you care about him or her and the plans you made.
4. Agree on the dress code. When planning the date,
talk about the dress code for the particular event
talk about the dress code for the particular event. It can be embarrassing if one person shows up in a suit while the other wears jeans and a sweatshirt.
5. Compliment, but don't overdo it. A few nice words make everyone feel special, but persistent comments about the other person's looks, personality, body, etc., gets old and can seem insincere or desperate.
6. Drink responsibly. A few drinks may take the pressure off the date, but don't pretend you're at a fraternity party. Drinking too much will likely bring out some bad sides to your personality -- and that can't help your chances.
7. Balance talking and listening. Pay attention to the amount of time you spend talking versus listening. If the scale is weighing in either direction, look to balance it out.
Well, believe it or not is only fact after we proofe it right?
beautiful scenery part 2
I got the sunset pic at my working place, nice isn't? When the light seems to falls out, there will be another beauty that we can see. Its just the same with what happened with our life, sometimes we feel that we're in the middle of chaos n miserable, remember that " there will be another day for us to reach our dreams and destiny, so cheer up and make your day"
Some people might think that we're not gonna reach our goals no matter how hard we try, and we could think up side down with their thinking. Which way U wanna choose, its up 2 U. But remember one thing, by the end of the day we still have something to be grateful at.
Love your selves and U'll found something great inside U,,,
Monday, March 03, 2008
Smart thought about life
WATCH YOUR LIFE
*Your life - your likes - you decide!!!*
A long time ago, there was an Emperor who told his horseman that if he could ride on his horse and cover as much land area as he likes, then the Emperor would give him the area of land he has covered. Sure enough, the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and rode as fast as possible to cover as much land area as he could. He kept on riding and riding, whipping the horse to go as fast as possible.
When he was hungry or tired, he did not stop because he wanted to cover as much area as possible. Came to a point when he had covered a substantial area and he was exhausted and was dying.
Then he asked himself, "Why did I push myself so hard to cover so much land area? Now I am dying and I only need a very small area to bury myself."
The above story is similar with the journey of our Life. We push very hard everyday to make more money, to gain power and recognition. We neglect our health , time with our family and to appreciate the surrounding beauty and the hobbies we love. One day when we look back , we will realize that we don't really need that much, but then we cannot turn back time for what we have missed.
Life is not about making money, acquiring power or recognition . Life is definitely not about work! Work is only necessary to keep us living so as to enjoy the beauty and pleasures of life. Life is a balance of Work and Play , Family and Personal time . You have to decide how you want to balance your Life.
Define your priorities, realize what you are able to compromise but always let some of your decisions be based on your instincts. Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of Life, the whole aim of human existence. So, take it easy, do what you want to do and appreciate nature. Life is fragile, Life is short. Do not take Life for granted. Live a balanced lifestyle and enjoy Life!
Watch your thoughts ; they become words.
Watch your words ; they become actions.
Watch your actions ; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character .
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny
Smile in pleasure, smile in pain;
Smile when trouble pours like rain;
Smile when someone hurts U, Smile coz someone cares 4 U.
Keep Smiling:)
*Your life - your likes - you decide!!!*
A long time ago, there was an Emperor who told his horseman that if he could ride on his horse and cover as much land area as he likes, then the Emperor would give him the area of land he has covered. Sure enough, the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and rode as fast as possible to cover as much land area as he could. He kept on riding and riding, whipping the horse to go as fast as possible.
When he was hungry or tired, he did not stop because he wanted to cover as much area as possible. Came to a point when he had covered a substantial area and he was exhausted and was dying.
Then he asked himself, "Why did I push myself so hard to cover so much land area? Now I am dying and I only need a very small area to bury myself."
The above story is similar with the journey of our Life. We push very hard everyday to make more money, to gain power and recognition. We neglect our health , time with our family and to appreciate the surrounding beauty and the hobbies we love. One day when we look back , we will realize that we don't really need that much, but then we cannot turn back time for what we have missed.
Life is not about making money, acquiring power or recognition . Life is definitely not about work! Work is only necessary to keep us living so as to enjoy the beauty and pleasures of life. Life is a balance of Work and Play , Family and Personal time . You have to decide how you want to balance your Life.
Define your priorities, realize what you are able to compromise but always let some of your decisions be based on your instincts. Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of Life, the whole aim of human existence. So, take it easy, do what you want to do and appreciate nature. Life is fragile, Life is short. Do not take Life for granted. Live a balanced lifestyle and enjoy Life!
Watch your thoughts ; they become words.
Watch your words ; they become actions.
Watch your actions ; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character .
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny
Smile in pleasure, smile in pain;
Smile when trouble pours like rain;
Smile when someone hurts U, Smile coz someone cares 4 U.
Keep Smiling:)
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
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